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The lovers, Afghanistan's Romeo & Juliet : the true story of how they defied their families and escaped an honor killing, Rod Nordland

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The lovers

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Rod Nordland

Afghanistan's Romeo & Juliet : the true story of how they defied their families and escaped an honor killing

In this brilliant, deeply reported account of two young people who risked their lives to be together, Pulitzer finalist Rod Nordland puts a face on the debate about women's rights in the fundamentalist Muslim world Zakia and Ali grew up as close friends on adjoining potato farms in the remote mountain province of Bamiyan. Separated when they reached puberty, Zakia, a beautiful and fiercely opinionated young woman, and Ali, a sensitive, handsome young man, fell in love and courted, remotely at first and then in Zakia's garden. Defying her family, Afghan custom, and Islamic law, Zakia left home to be with Ali and ended up in a women's shelter. The shelter saved her life, but she was unable to see Ali there so the two lovers decided to elope and went into hiding, pursued by Zakia's family. The author wrote about them in the New York Times, and having exposed them, felt obligated to help them to safety. After months of living in caves or staying trapped in small Kabul apartments, they finally, with Rod's help and donations from abroad, made a disastrous attempt to flee to Tajikistan. Forced to return to Kabul, they were closely tracked by Zakia's family?who briefly captured Ali?before they went back into hiding in the countryside. Despite a decade of American good intentions, women in Afghanistan are still subjected to some of the worst human rights violations in the world. The Lovers is Rod Nordland's compelling tale about his inability, even as a Westerner with money and will, to protect these young lovers' basic human rights. Recounting the stories of similar, though less fortunate, couples from his decades of experience in the region, Rod illustrates how common misogynistic cultural practices such as stoning, child marriage, and legalized rape are deeply ingrained in traditional Afghan culture. The United States has spent more than a billion dollars on efforts to train and improve the Afghan judiciary system, with a particular emphasis on women's rights and gender equality. As a result, Afghan law now technically outlaws many horrendous customary practices. But they remain prevalent nonetheless and give cover for people like Zakia's father and brothers, who still want to capture and kill her. Zakia and Ali still hope, against enormous odds, to flee the country. The Lovers is the story of their unshakable self-determination and the irrepressibility of human feeling in the face of a shockingly repressive culture. Advance Praise for The Lovers "This sensitive and unblinking portrait of love and injustice somehow encompasses Afghanistan's recent tragedy: hope, suffering, disillusionment, resilience. Rod Nordland has come as close as any Western reporter to the human heart beneath the headlines."?George Packer, author of The Unwinding: An Inner History of the New America and The Assassins' Gate: America in Iraq "A captivating account of forbidden love in one of the world's most conservative countries. Nordland takes the reader on his personal journey to save a couple from the inevitable doom of secret love in Afghanistan and reveals an unprecedented window into the country's cultural constraints. A blueprint of the struggle for Afghan women's rights."?lynsey addario, author of It's What I Do: A Photographer's Life of Love and War "This is a much bigger story than that of the suspenseful elopement at its core, a romance between two lovers of unlikely courage who risk their lives to marry, written by the journalist who risked his professional detachment to champion their freedom. It is a searing analysis of the endemic gender terrorism in a culture where no woman of any age or class?including the cabinet..